A first date can be more than a little nerve-racking.
Let’s face it, we all want to look our best and yes, it’s not only women who want to look good for a first date. We know you guys need a little help getting ready too. Playing dress up in front of the mirror may not be your idea of a good time so here is some help and guidance on how to dress for a first date guaranteed to avoid disasters and leave you looking and feeling like a million dollars!
The way you dress for a first date says a lot about who you are and provides some important visual clues to your partner. Ok, clothes don’t make the man, not by a long shot. However, the way you dress is an extension of your personality. It shows your date you respect her enough to make a good impression and can make you feel a lot more confident and relaxed on your first day or night out with the object of your affection.
Men’s clothing is often a lot simpler than that of our female counterparts but when you dress for a first date it’s all about detail. Your choice of shirt, tie color, shoes and socks can all create an impression that says you are a man who means business. Here are some tips and tricks for looking fabulous on your first date and making a memorable impression:
* Don’t dress too casually or too formally. Go for a smart-casual look that is not too understated or too bold and daring. Woman do love a man to dress confidently though, so add a touch or two that says “I am unique’. Never wear an item of clothing that is show-offish or obviously accentuates your body. Your date will be notice that you work out under basic clothing too!
* Always dress for a first date in clothing that is both neat and clean. This says a lot about your personal hygiene, self-respect and ability to take care of yourself. These are all qualities admired by women, so make an effort to be as presentable as possible.
* Avoid buying a new outfit when you dress for a first date. This can make you appear to be trying too hard and will make your date wonder what the rest of your wardrobe looks like. New clothes can also be uncomfortable and the last thing you need is to discover that your new pants really don’t fit as well as you thought they did!
Fashion, clothes and the first date.
* Consider wearing a favorite outfit if it suits the occasion – This will make you feel confident and comfortable and this translates into better self-esteem at a time when you are likely to be a tad nervous.
* Choose your outfit based on the venue for the date. If you are going to a rock concert, you could go with ultra-trendy or semi-casual but don’t overdo it with a death-metal T-shirt (unless you know your date will be wearing one too!) or green streaked hair.
* Colors you may consider wearing when you dress for a first date include blues, black(don’t overdo it) and earthy tones like brown or beige. This is not the time to be dusting off that purple Mickey Mouse tie!
* Stick to basic fabrics and add interesting touches with a suede jacket or shoes. You might want to avoid leather on a first date and please, please don’t wear a hat (unless you are going to a rodeo or sports event, that is!).
* Clothing items you may want to try out are a nice smart shirt and chinos or dress pants and a nice shirt and tie (wear a matching jacket if it suits the venue). If you absolutely must wear denim, make sure it’s a fairly new pair and pick a smart-casual shirt that will tone in with the blue or black denim. Jeans and a T-shirt will only work if the venue is outdoors and super-casual.
* Don’t forget your shoes and socks when you dress for a first date. Many a fabulous outfit has been ruined by forgetting to wear a good pair of shoes and matching socks. Your shoes should be clean and polished if need be and suit the time and place, your outfit and the weather. Make sure your socks tone with your suit or pants and that they are clean. If you are going to invest in anything new for a first date, a new pair of socks would be it!
* Pay attention to your accessories – These include your watch, belt and any jewelry you may be wearing and other items like cell phones or pagers. For example, if you are separated, or in the process of a marriage break-up don’t wear your wedding band and leave that bracelet that says ‘Mandy’ at home!
Your jewelry should be clean and understated. Check that your watch is working and if it has an alarm make sure it is turned off. Leave your cell phone or pager at home! When you dress for a first date you don’t want to appear to be tied to your work or anybody else!
* Pay close attention to your grooming and hygiene. ALWAYS bathe or shower before setting out for a first date and make sure that any after shave, cologne or mouthwash isn’t too overpowering. Never chew gum.
To conclude, when you dress for a first date make sure you don’t under or overdo it. Always dress in clothes that are neat, clean and ironed and make sure you leave your ‘crazy clothes’ in the cupboard.
A first date is a time to get to know the object of your affection and to establish a solid relationship based on mutual respect so don’t get too tied up in what you are wearing but do make sure you create a lasting impression! Good luck!