This is usually a matter of personal preference and there is no way to determine what will make one design appealing to a person and not another, however there are four things to look for and some important things to avoid when you buy an engagement ring. The ring should be:
Easy to wear and practical in design:
This depends largely on your lifestyle but in general the higher the stone is set into the metal, the more likely it is to catch on things like clothing, fabrics or furniture. If your job is fairly low-key and sedentary you will probably be fine but if you are a sports fanatic, hairdresser or pre-school teacher you will need a ring set well into the ring band and able to withstand everyday wear.
You will most likely wear your ring every day and your setting should be long wearing and practical. Some environments are more destructive to jewelry for example a factory where many abrasive chemicals are used and oddly enough an office environment where lots of paper is handled. In fact, paper is quite abrasive and constant exposure to it can damage your ring over the years.
A heavier ring design is better for this type of work, as it will be resistant to wear. The design doesn't have to be any wider, but a stronger shank should be used. Platinum is a good choice if you want a finer, more elegant style as this metal is far longer lasting than gold.
Securely set
Make sure that your gemstones are very securely held. Follow these general guidelines for settings:
1. Six claws will be safer than four. 2. A bezel (rub over) setting is more secure than a claw setting. 3. Heavier settings are stronger than light settings. 4. A lower setting is less likely to be damaged than a higher set stone.
Attractive
This is a matter of personal taste, but in general if your ring design fulfills the above guidelines and you really like it too, you may have found the perfect engagement ring.
If you have decided to declare your true love to the lady of your dreams, you will find the above tips invaluable when you go out to buy an engagement ring. Do remember that if any of these elements are missing or lacking, the ring is not well designed and you should look further before making a choice. Consult as many experts as you can for advice.
When you venture out to buy an engagement ring you need to be informed, confident and know what you want and you will be guided to the perfect choice - one sure to make the object of your affection squirm with delight and last for all your happy years together.