Before you hold a séance you need to make sure you clearly understand its purpose. You might want to contact a lost loved one or friend or meet up with your spirit guide. It is even possible to conjure apparitions. Either way, the clearer your intent and the more directed the energy of the sitters-the more successful you are likely to be.
For this reason it is very important that all the sitters have the same goal in mind and are willing to focus their energy in that direction. It is the job of the medium to question and explain all the details to each sitter in turn so that all who attend the séance are of one mind.
* The Seance sitters:
All sitters need to express a firm desire to be involved in the séance. Any unwillingness on the part of those who attend will disrupt the process. Never force anybody to be involved against their will. Your sitters must be:
1. People who really want to be there. A serious and solemn attitude is helpful combined with a positive and directed feeling.
2. Family or friends of deceased loved ones. They should be objective and balanced and avoid a desperate or needy attitude towards possible contact. They should be patient and accepting of the process and the outcome - whatever that may be.
3. People who have a loving and open attitude. The spirit world communicates through a loving vibration and it is this open channel between this world and the next that enables communication.
* People You Should Avoid:
1. Anybody who is cynical or skeptical about the process. These people will act as broken links in a chain.
2. A frightened or superstitious person. Fear will block all communication as the spirit world prefers knowing they are being welcomed by all parties.
3. Anybody who has hatred for others in the circle or outside of it.
